Lovely post, A. I’m intrigued by your dream about your 1st husband. I’ve had dreams like that, too, where I woke and felt sure I had actually been with the deceased person. With your son’s upcoming wedding, it makes sense this would happen with Devin now.
Ellen - I always have these dreams, with Devin, my mom and dad, Laura. They are deep and feel so real. I had one after our dog died too (he was running!!) and I could feel him in my arms. My mom wasn't kidding when she said I feel things so deeply!
Thank you, Annette, for this thoughtful dive into the imperfection of grieving - something I'm in the thick of now as my dear sister Debby faces her death. I read an article recently advising that mourning (in our culture) has time boundaries, but that grieving is forever.
Kathy - I'm sorry to hear about your sister, Debby. Perhaps that article said it best. Some words give us boundaries and others give us permission....sending you much love
I truly understand with the loss of 3 husbands. My biggest hurdle and still is the loss of my youngest son. Truly we all grieve which should be happy moments for weddings, birth of a child ( parents or grandparents gone) graduations, etc. as always love your writings. Looking forward to your next one.
Lovely post, A. I’m intrigued by your dream about your 1st husband. I’ve had dreams like that, too, where I woke and felt sure I had actually been with the deceased person. With your son’s upcoming wedding, it makes sense this would happen with Devin now.
Ellen - I always have these dreams, with Devin, my mom and dad, Laura. They are deep and feel so real. I had one after our dog died too (he was running!!) and I could feel him in my arms. My mom wasn't kidding when she said I feel things so deeply!
Thank you, Annette, for this thoughtful dive into the imperfection of grieving - something I'm in the thick of now as my dear sister Debby faces her death. I read an article recently advising that mourning (in our culture) has time boundaries, but that grieving is forever.
Kathy - I'm sorry to hear about your sister, Debby. Perhaps that article said it best. Some words give us boundaries and others give us permission....sending you much love
Thanks so much, Annette!
I truly understand with the loss of 3 husbands. My biggest hurdle and still is the loss of my youngest son. Truly we all grieve which should be happy moments for weddings, birth of a child ( parents or grandparents gone) graduations, etc. as always love your writings. Looking forward to your next one.
I know you do. I can't know what's in your heart, but I will hold your grief in mine. Much love to you
Thank you and same to you. With much love always from the day I met you. You are such a loving person.
Perfection. Passing on to friends who are grieving…and aren’t we all grieving?
Thank you! Yes, we all are.
Perfection. Passing on to friends who are grieving…and aren’t we all grieving?